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Have you ever heard that it is easier to teach things to kids than adults? It’s true. This goes for money, too. If you want your kids to save more than they spend, start at an early age. Here are some tips:

Play money games with your kids. Monopoly was a popular game when I was a kid and kids still like it today. Choosing to buy or sell properties and negotiating fees with other players is good practice for dealing with real money. Just because you have the money to develop your properties doesn’t mean that you have the money for upkeep. Players have to make decisions based on present and future earnings.

It’s easy to forget about money matters when the parents are footing the bill for everything. A five dollar magazine didn’t seem so expensive then. But when they have to pay for it themselves, more thought goes into the process. They’ll think about whether they really need that magazine or not.

Instead of allowing children to become obsessed with wearing expensive clothing of some popular brand name, take kids clothes shopping at consignment shops and inexpensive department stores like Target or Wal-Mart. Talk to them about how to evaluate and compare the prices of clothes as meander through the shopping racks. It would be wise to explain that there really is no problem with owning some name brand clothing, but filling your entire wardrobe with it is extremely and expensive and not necessary.

Take your kids to the grocery store with you. Let them help you make out the grocery list and clip the coupons. As you bargain shop, tell the kids what you are doing. You don’t have to go into great detail; just give them an overview of the process.

Practice what you preach. Children learn by observing adults, and you will be giving your kids a very bad example to follow if you make impulsive purchases every time you have some extra cash. Control your spending and stick to your budget so that your children learn to do the same.

Get a piggy bank. Coins are money too and children can learn to save up all their loose change in a piggy bank. Kids can pick out a coin bank that they like and start saving their money.

Coins can be found all over the place and they add up fast. After a few months have passed and you’ve collected change from the sofa cushions and other interesting locations, take your piggy bank to a change counting machine to see how much you have been able to save. Kids can spend some of the money and keep the rest as savings.

Learning how to use money is a trial and error kind of process. The money that you give to your kids or that they earn is their money. As a parent, you can advise them how to act, but they must deal with the good choices and the consequences of poor ones. Lessons learned will speak more than scolding.

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